Your eyes hardened in defensiveness as I confronted you with your mistake. I could hear the way your pride is telling you to just leave, just walk away, to go with who you cheated on me with. You know, someone once tempted me to stray from my love, too. The only difference is, I chose…
Read MoreDear Pretty Lady: You Are Not Cheap
Dear Pretty Lady, I know there’s so much more to you than a pretty face and an attractive body. So let me say this: you are worth far more than a booty call or a flirty text. You deserve more than mixed signals and promises unfulfilled. You cannot be demeaned by catcalls and lingering gazes.…
Read MoreMarry Someone Out of Your League
“Give honor to marriage, and remain faithful to one another in marriage.” -Hebrews 13:4 I recently came across an article about the Ashley Madison scandal, and I saw comments by men and women who were sharing how you should never completely trust your spouse because it doesn’t take much for them to go astray. Wives…
Read MoreDear Young Lady: Regretting a Broken Heart
I got inspired to write this when a friend of mine told me of how ladies in his school VG were sharing about how much they regretted their past relationships and how they wish they waited. Dear Young Lady, I’ve been there. I know what it’s like to have loved at the wrong time; to…
Read MoreDear Men: We Need You
Disclaimer: I am not generalizing that all males are boys, for I personally know godly, amazing men who lead and take on the things God have set before them. I also know of situations where it is the woman who messed up while it is the man who stayed and came through. So no, this…
Read MoreDear Guy Friend: I Want Your Wife to Love Me
Disclaimer: I want to make clear that not much has been said on the Bible about this and thus these are MY convictions and I won’t force them upon anyone else. I have nothing against people whose convictions are otherwise. But if somehow you can obtain wisdom out of it, then it would be my…
Read MoreDear Future Child: I Won’t Be a Cool Mom
It has been said “train a child in the way he should go And it is in this manner that he will grow.” And honestly, honey, as cool as I want you to think I will be My job here isn’t really all that simple and easy So at the age of 4, when you…
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