When It’s Hard to Let Go

“Why did you even let the relationship go on for as long as it did?” I looked my friend right in the eye and refused to budge my line of questioning. Here was a man who fell in love with a lady he knew from the beginning wasn’t the one God had for him. H ...

You Deserve More Than Secondhand Love

To be honest, from the moment this blog blew up back in 2015, this has been one of the things I have always wanted to say. This was something I constantly expressed to my friends, but somehow had a difficult time putting it into words considering how iron ...

This Is Who You Are

Take a long look in the mirror right now and tell me what you see. Hips too thin, waist too fat, arms too flabby. Look closer. Tell me what you see. Eyes too far apart, nose too flat, acne scars too deep. Closer. Look deeper. Don’t you see what I see? ...

A Lover, Not A Sugar Daddy

I still remember the day I first saw you. Immediately, you were etched into My heart. It was love at first sight and since then, I adored you with all My might. I'm sure, being in a relationship with Me is not all you pictured it to be. Because you knew ...

Dear Millenials: How Do You Love?

Dear Generation Y, Hear me out. In this world of modernization, we claim to know love by insisting on "marriage equality" all the while pushing for divorce and pre-nuptial agreements. We stay in a relationship until someone more interesting comes along. ...

Dear Reader: Stop Copying My Convictions

Hello, my dearest reader. I mean this in the kindest way possible. As you read through this, don't hear my voice in your head as someone mad or annoyed. Hear the sincerity and the heartfelt concern. As much as I am immensely grateful that you hold my co ...

Loving a Cheater

Your eyes hardened in defensiveness as I confronted you with your mistake. I could hear the way your pride is telling you to just leave, just walk away, to go with who you cheated on me with. You know, someone once tempted me to stray from my love, too. ...