I don’t really know what to say when people ask me where I’m at in my life right now so I simply answer, “in between.” But really, what does that even mean? Earlier this year, God gave me a vision of being pulled out from where I was and being placed in a new land,…
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Men, You Are God’s Gift to Women.
I’m not talking about the guy who arrogantly flaunts and flirts and personally tags himself as God’s gift to women. (Hi. If that’s you, I’m telling you straight up: you’re probably not, actually. Sorry). I’m talking about you who care so much about Biblical manhood that you’d invest time and money into learning how you can…
Read MoreYou Deserve More Than Secondhand Love
To be honest, from the moment this blog blew up back in 2015, this has been one of the things I have always wanted to say. This was something I constantly expressed to my friends, but somehow had a difficult time putting it into words considering how ironic it would be to come from someone…
Read MoreBreak.
"It's okay. Break. It's okay to break. It's okay to be broken." How many times do we have to tell ourselves that our brokenness is forgivable? This, this is one of the greatest things He has taught me. That we can be undone, and it's completely okay. Some pain could be self-inflicted. Some pain could…
Read MoreThere Is More to Singlehood Than Being Single
In other words, if you are single, there is a higher calling upon your life in that season than just figuring out how to get married. Shocking, I know. *note sarcasm* But let’s be real here. We all know it in theory. In actual life, it can get a little blurry. Now I do agree…
Read MoreDear Future Daughter: “Am I Pretty?”
I can already picture it. You at 3, in your favorite white dress all sparkly and poofy, coming up to me with eyes wide open with curiosity. A flick of hair here, a twirl there, and your heart begging to be delighted in. "Mommy, mommy, am I pretty?" I'm going to look you straight in…
Read MoreBeloved, Let Him Go
Just a little confession: I am in no way an expert at this. I have loved and I have lost and I have spent months and years in an emotional limbo, hopelessly stuck in a place I don’t even think I want to move on from because it’s the only place I can still find…
Read MoreIt’s Christmas and Everything Seems Dark
“Why are there no lights out?” It’s early December and I was pouting to my brother how everything is as Christmas-sy as it should be except the new city mayor decided not to waste money on lights and decors this year. A few days after that, we were on the drive home when he complained…
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I Want To Get Engaged Too
You guys, I’m not kidding. Two men got down on one knee to propose to two of my friends last week and while I deeply rejoice with them, I can’t get out of my head the fact that life is quickly passing me by. It’s surreal to think that we went from talking about wedding…
Read MoreBro, Don’t Me.
Based on a thousand true stories of malilinaw na malabong usapan, though not one of them mine. Rather, these are the collective thoughts of males and females alike who are close to me and have been in such circumstances before. Let’s make it clear before this gets too far. Like a puppet-master with a string,…
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