I don’t really know what to say when people ask me where I’m at in my life right now so I simply answer,
But really, what does that even mean?
Earlier this year, God gave me a vision of being pulled out from where I was and being placed in a new land, accompanying the verse about Abraham. I received that word and said yes, completely. I told Him to hold my hand and pull me through, and I said He could push me if He had to. I asked Him to bring me out of my comfort zone and to make all things new.
You guys, this is the part where I say be careful what you ask for, because He really does answer prayers.
He did make all things new – in every way possible. In fact, He wiped the slate clean. Soon enough, I found myself smack-dab in a place where everything’s quite literally out of my control. Things I thought I always knew about my life and myself suddenly became unsure. Anything and everyone that somehow represented a form of my comfort zone, God asked me to release.
To say that this season is nothing like I thought it would look like would be a huge understatement.
I quickly realized that I had to say no to say yes. I had to say no to certain relationships, certain opportunities, and certain wants in order to say yes to what God was asking of me.
So as much as I joyfully embraced the adventure at the beginning, soon enough I struggled with the realities of it. I had so much difficulty with where I was that I had to frequently remind myself Whose I was. And when I approached Him with questions, He told me straight up,
“You asked for it.”
Seriously, be careful what you pray for.
But it wasn’t until I went back to the province for a 2-day visit that I grasped the intricacies of my pain.
A couple of hours before my scheduled trip back to the city, I was hanging out with some of the students and volunteers. My dad walked up to me to say an early goodbye because he had to take care of some things and he wasn’t sure if he would see me before I left. The moment he did so, I started crying uncontrollably. None of them knew what to do, not even I. I was partly embarrassed because there were other people there, but I couldn’t stop myself. My dad took one look at me and knew.
“You don’t want to leave, ‘no? You don’t have to go. Just tell me if you want to stay. You can stay.”
The tears kept on coming, but I fell silent. I knew what I truly wanted.
“No. I have to go. I need to go.”
I wanted to stay, but I wanted God more.
I understood then the choice that I made three months before and decided that I wasn’t going to change my mind. I knew that even if I had to keep saying no to my plans, my timeline, my options, my comforts, I would choose this path all over again. I would say a million nos if that’s what it meant to give my full yes to Him.
It’s a trade-off, it always will be. The same way He traded the golden streets of heaven to die for me.
How can I not say yes to Him? How can I not choose to be faithful to Him, to what He has asked of me?
Even when it hurts, I choose to be faithful.
Even when it’s difficult, I choose to be faithful.
Even when I don’t understand, I choose to be faithful.
Even when it’s nothing like I planned, I choose to be faithful.
I can choose to be faithful because He is faithful.
I choose to be faithful because He is faithful.
I choose to be faithful, knowing He will prove Himself faithful.
I’m a natural planner, but now I have to let myself take it one day at a time. So each and every day, I go back to my original yes. I remind myself why I said yes in the first place. Then I say yes all over again.
And when I have difficulty with where I am, I remind myself Whose I am: I belong to a good Father and a great God who wants nothing but the best for me.
Yes, He is worth every shattered piece of my heart.
He is worth it all so He can tear me apart.
But let me not forget that He makes the broken beautiful.
Let me not forget that He loves me more.
I may not completely know where I’m at, but I know I’m where I’m supposed to be. I know I’m where God wants me. I know that He is molding me, shaping me, preparing me. And I’m pretty sure He’s in the process of writing one epic story.
We can be confident in this: that He who began a good work in us will bring it to completion (Philippians 1:6).
For as it is written:
what no eye has seen,
what no ear has heard,
and what no human mind has conceived,
the things God has prepared for those who love Him.
-1 Corinthians 2:9