As a business graduate, there’s one rule I got out of my accounting classes that I continue to live by today: never assume unless otherwise stated. Being such a stickler for rules, I made sure to adhere to this one. Apparently, that one went down for better and for worse. I literally never assumed –…
Read MoreHow to Pursue Your Boaz (Like Ruth Did!)
Is there anyone here not familiar with the story of Ruth? So often cited in Christian circles as justification why women can make the first move, we look at her story with profound interest. I’ve always been intrigued by the lives of the women mentioned in the genealogy of Jesus and every time, I find…
Read MoreBeloved, Let Him Go
Just a little confession: I am in no way an expert at this. I have loved and I have lost and I have spent months and years in an emotional limbo, hopelessly stuck in a place I don’t even think I want to move on from because it’s the only place I can still find…
Read MoreDear Pretty Lady: You Are Not Cheap
Dear Pretty Lady, I know there’s so much more to you than a pretty face and an attractive body. So let me say this: you are worth far more than a booty call or a flirty text. You deserve more than mixed signals and promises unfulfilled. You cannot be demeaned by catcalls and lingering gazes.…
Read MoreDear Young Lady: Regretting a Broken Heart
I got inspired to write this when a friend of mine told me of how ladies in his school VG were sharing about how much they regretted their past relationships and how they wish they waited. Dear Young Lady, I’ve been there. I know what it’s like to have loved at the wrong time; to…
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