When It’s Hard to Let Go

“Why did you even let the relationship go on for as long as it did?” I looked my friend right in the eye and refused to budge my line of questioning. Here was a man who fell in love with a lady he knew from the beginning wasn’t the one God had for him. H ...

Fight for Your Heart

“Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” - Proverbs 4:23 This verse has been preached a thousand times in a thousand different ways. But such are the joys of the Bible being living and active - there’s always something ne ...

Beloved, Let Him Go

Just a little confession: I am in no way an expert at this. I have loved and I have lost and I have spent months and years in an emotional limbo, hopelessly stuck in a place I don't even think I want to move on from because it's the only place I ...

I Give Up.

I give up. There, I said it. I just can’t do it anymore. I’ve never really talked about it on this blog and I only shared about it to very few friends, but let’s get it out in the open now. I graduated from university almost two years ago with the idea ...

Unearthing Desire: Preserve 

“Spiritual surrender is not resignation. It is not choosing to care no longer. It is surrender with desire, or in desire. Desire is still present, felt, welcomed even. But the will to secure is made subject to the divine will in an act of abandoned trust.”